What does it take to be a good sportsman?
You must have heard lots of motivational speeches in person and on your television set. And, these days, on the internet. The speeches often contain the word ‘sport’ as a metaphor. Being a good sportsman goes in parallel with sports and your real life.
This involves the various qualities of determination, skill and hard work that contribute to your chance of winning on the playing field or in other aspects of your life. This is interchangeably called as sportsmanship. Hence, we often say that being a good sportsman is what all it takes.
Traits of a good sportsman
Let’s take a quick look at the various characteristics of a good sportsman.
1. A good sportsman always plays a fair game
A good sportsman is never biased. A person who is a good sport does not win by dishonesty. Thus, in order to be a good sport, you must learn to accept victory and failure.
2. Is a team player
You may be different from others in many aspects, but having a team spirit will help you evolve. Whether you are playing sports or dealing with matters in and outside your home, take honest approaches, but make a conscious effort.
3. Is always optimistic
Looking at the bright side of things is an important trait of a good sportsman or sportsmanship. People who look at the dark side of things are never successful in their lives. So, being optimistic in life is crucial in order to win your game and in life.
4. Is not a taleteller
Sportsmanship does not indulge in gossiping indiscreetly. A good sportsman is not a taleteller. As a good sportsman, you only involve in necessary conversation or discussions when required. It’s simply a waste of one’s time and energy gossiping about irrelevant things or situations.
5. Never underestimates their rivals
In order to be a sportsman, you should kill jealousy, treachery and underestimate your opponents, in the field or in your real life. Sometimes, being over-confident can lead to disruption.
6. Has the courage to lose gracefully
Very few people have the courage to experience defeat or loss. Whether it’s a game in the field or some event in your domestic or professional life, learning to accept defeats teaches you a lesson and prepares you to face any hardship. A good sportsman never gives up in life. Being strong is their motive.
7. Wins with pride
Every game has a winner and a loser. Winning with pride is the zeal of a good sportsman. When you put your effort in your game or in your real life and achieve success, you can feel the happiness and pride.
8. Respects each others’ opinions
A good sportsman is not judgemental. Having respect for each others’ opinions and views is also a fine quality. This requires you to be psychologically prepared and understand what the other person’s views are. It is helpful when you are dealing with individuals with different perspective minds in your everyday life.
Do you have it in you?
Simply playing and winning does not end it here. All the little things that are associated with your life, whether it’s a game or your home and profession, matters. It is about how you react to the consequences, be courageous enough to accept hardships and then enjoy the satisfaction of success.